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Posted by Dominic Mon, 30 Mar 2009 04:07:00 GMT
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Posted by Dominic Wed, 25 Mar 2009 15:43:00 GMT
After reading some interesting entries on the girl talk blog - I have a few food-for-thought questions for the handful of girls that actually read my blog.
Many Christian girls have a view of life where marriage is equated with the beginning of motherhood - you marry, and… the babies. Your life afte marriage is spent rearing and caring for children, at least until they move out. (And yes, I am generalizing here.)
In the Bible, Proverbs 31 describes what a “worthy woman” is to look like - a much different description than being a “baby factory.”
In the description, the woman is a craft maker, property manager, clothier, she cares for the needy… the list goes on.
My first question is: What does a modern ‘Proverbs 31’ woman look like? Do you all think that the purpose of life after marriage is by-and-large to have children, raise and care for them?
What about situations where the woman might have a better job, more income, etc - should there always be “stay at home moms,” or can “stay at home dads” substitute? (This could be challenging, depending on the man, I’m sure)
What about career - does your career end when you have kids? Does your career end when you get married? (I would think no to the latter)
I strongly believe that it’s the parents job to raise children, not nannies/daycare/school/teachers - how do you balance raising kids with work… or is a balance even possible? Afterall, raising kids and running a household is a full time job (or more than a full time job.)
Thoughts? Ideas? Opinions? Comment below.
Posted by Dominic Tue, 24 Mar 2009 19:00:00 GMT
Come to the waters You who thirst and you’ll thirst no more Come to the Father You who work and you’ll work no more All you who labor in vain And to the broken and shamed Love is here Love is now Love is pouring from His hands from His brow Love is near it satisfies Streams of mercy flowing from His side Cause Love is here Come to the treasure You who search and you’ll search no more Come to the lover You who want and you’ll want no more All you who labor in vain And to the broken and shamed And to the bruised and fallen Captives bound and brokenhearted He is the Lord, He is the Lord By His stripes He’s paid our ransom From His wounds we drink salvation He is the Lord, He is the Lord
—Tenth Avenue North
Posted by Dominic Mon, 23 Mar 2009 21:11:00 GMT
A friend of mine pointed me to the NEXT website a few months ago, and I’ve become a fan of reading their monthly webzine since then.
Over the last two months, Carolyn McCulley, the author of “Radical Womanhood: Feminine Faith in a Feminist” talks about some of the history of feminism and how it relates to Christian sexuality.
Part one can be found in the February 2009 issue: Raunch Culture, Pt 1.
The second installment continues to discuss sexuality, particularly after marriage and how we should take a stand against the current culture’s drive to “cheapen” what should be precious.
Part two can be found in the March 2009 issue: Raunch Culture, Pt 2.
What are your thoughts about this?
Posted by Dominic Mon, 09 Mar 2009 01:39:00 GMT
The greater friend group that I am with, has biweekly get-togethers at a local watering hole which are used to discuss various topics.
I understand the desire to have the forum be gender-based. Guys can talk in guy terms. But often, it seems to me, we end up lacking a critical point of view - the opposite.
So I pose this question to you readers:
What is the proper forum, or how does one arrange a proper forum, for a mixed-gender group to discuss various topics, be it worship, dating, quiet time or what have you?
Beer welcome.